{"id":823,"date":"2015-12-10T15:03:39","date_gmt":"2015-12-10T14:03:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paartherapie-coupletherapy.de\/en\/?page_id=823"},"modified":"2025-05-08T12:09:47","modified_gmt":"2025-05-08T10:09:47","slug":"crisis-and-change-2-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/paartherapie-coupletherapy.de\/en\/motivations\/crisis-and-change-2-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Crisis and change"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1448649230734{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;padding-bottom: 0px !important;}&#8221; el_class=&#8221;headerbilder&#8221;][vc_column][layerslider_vc id=&#8221;8&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<\/p>\r\n<p><p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_separator color=&#8221;white&#8221; el_class=&#8221;spacer&#8221;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h1>Crisis and change<\/h1>\n<p>However hopeless your situation may seem to you, my motto is: <strong>Never waste a crisis!<\/strong> In reality, we are always free to decide to view a relationship crisis as an opportunity. They can in fact stimulate growth, positive change, and learning.<\/p>\n<p>A crisis in a relationship also always shows that the existing patterns have stopped working. Couples therapy allows you to find <strong>new perspectives and strategies<\/strong>. My questions will help you to find clarity and confidence. What is it we need to achieve together? Where do we want to get to? What needs to happen for us to be happy again?<\/p>\n<p>Conversations with couples often revolve around injuries that can be traced back to both parties. Both partners continually react dismissively or aggressively towards the other. A vicious circle, which leads to a sort of <strong>stalemate, based on accusations and counter-accusations<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>In situations like this, couples can no longer find their own way out of the deadlock. They are unable to see the patterns of emotion, thought and action that are preventing them from making the changes they need to make.<\/p>\n<p>You want to break out of the vicious circle and finally take the first step towards positive change? 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