{"id":1272,"date":"2017-01-10T17:08:55","date_gmt":"2017-01-10T16:08:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paartherapie-coupletherapy.de\/en\/?p=1272"},"modified":"2018-02-07T16:06:22","modified_gmt":"2018-02-07T15:06:22","slug":"stop-the-fight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paartherapie-coupletherapy.de\/en\/stop-the-fight\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop-the-fight!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Stop the fight!<\/h1>\n<p>If you find yourself in a relationship that is deteriorating as rising arguments, escalating fights and bitter battles take over,\u00a0 and\u00a0 &#8220;Stop fighting with my partner&#8221; is on your list of New Year&#8217;s resolutions,\u00a0 I recommend a truely wonderful, wise and (yes!) fun book for couples:\u00a0 <strong>Stop the fight!<\/strong> by Michelle Brody, Ph.D.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.de\/dp\/B00Z8CZQRC\/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&amp;btkr=1by\">https:\/\/www.amazon.de\/dp\/B00Z8CZQRC\/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&amp;btkr=1by<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Brody describes 12 typical topics that most of my clients argue over again and again.<\/p>\n<p>They might sound familiar to you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The Partner Improvement Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Prove Your Point Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Nagging-Tuning Out Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Escalating Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Household Responsibilities Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Birthday Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Bad Reputation Fight<\/li>\n<li>The You-Don&#8217;t-Care-About-Me Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Sex Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Money Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Parenting Differences Fight<\/li>\n<li>The Difficult Relatives Fight<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What makes this book outstanding is Brody&#8217;s capacity to convey a deep understanding for the fighting couple&#8217;s complex dynamic that is both very professional, indeed profound and yet very easy to understand. 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