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Ideal und Wirklichkeit<\/h1>\n\n\n\n

Auf der Jahrestagung 2015 der Deutschen Gesellschaft f\u00fcr Systemische Therapie, Beratung und Familientherapie (DGSF) hielt der Philosoph Wilhelm Schmid <\/a>einen der Er\u00f6ffnungsvortr\u00e4ge. Einleitend wies er darauf hin, dass in der Vormoderne alle Beziehungen Zwangsbeziehungen<\/strong> waren. Das gilt f\u00fcr die Beziehung zum Ehepartner und zu den Eltern genauso wie f\u00fcr die Beziehung zu Gott oder zum Herrscher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Die moderne Ehe<\/strong> hingegen beruht, zumindest in der westlichen Welt, auf dem Postulat der Freiwilligkeit. Und wenn wir eine Beziehung freiwillig eingehen, zum Beispiel weil wir verliebt sind, fragen wir uns dabei nach dem Ziel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ist das Ziel der Partnerschaft, uns gl\u00fccklich zu machen? Wir w\u00e4gen ab: Ist die Diskrepanz zwischen unserem Liebesideal und der Beziehungsrealit\u00e4t zu gro\u00df? Erich Fried schreibt in seinem ber\u00fchmten Gedicht \u201eEs ist wie es ist, \u2026 sagt die Liebe\u201c. Oft sagt die Liebe aber auch: So wie es ist, ist es nicht genug!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mit der Freiheit kommt die Verantwortung \u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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