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Book recommendations

The following books offer useful insights to read alongside your couples therapy::

Marriage rules

Harriet Lerner
Marriage Rules

Harriet Lerner

Arnold Retzer
Lob der Vernunftehe

Hans Jellouschek
Wie Partnerschaft gelingt

John Gottman & Julia Schwartz Gottman
10 Lessons to transform your marriage


How to deal with affairs

Relationship dynamics

Young families

Hans Jellouschek und Bettina Jellouschek-Otto
Familie werden, Paar bleiben


Michele Weiner-Davis
The Divorce Remedy

“Have patience with the unresolved issues in your heart, and try to love the questions themselves, as if they were locked rooms, or books written in a very foreign language. The point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.”

Rainer Maria Rilke, “Letter to a Young Poet“